Track spent `WatchedOutput`s and re-add if unconfirmed

Track spent `WatchedOutput`s and re-add if unconfirmed

Previously, we would track a spending transaction but wouldn't account
for it being reorged out of the chain, in which case we wouldn't monitor
the `WatchedOutput`s until they'd be reloaded on restart.

Here, we keep any `WatchedOutput`s around until their spends are
sufficiently confirmed and only prune them after `ANTI_REORG_DELAY`.