Handle sign_counterparty_commitment failing during inb funding

Handle sign_counterparty_commitment failing during inb funding

If sign_counterparty_commitment fails (i.e. because the signer is
temporarily disconnected), this really indicates that we should
retry the message sending which required the signature later,
rather than force-closing the channel (which probably won't even
work if the signer is missing).

Here we add initial handling of sign_counterparty_commitment
failing during inbound channel funding, setting a flag in
`ChannelContext` which indicates we should retry sending the
`funding_signed` later. We don't yet add any ability to do that
retry.