Await for invoices using an absolute expiry

Await for invoices using an absolute expiry

PendingOutboundPayment::AwaitingInvoice counts the number of timer ticks
that have passed awaiting a Bolt12Invoice for an InvoiceRequest. When a
constant INVOICE_REQUEST_TIMEOUT_TICKS has passed, the payment is
forgotten. However, this mechanism is insufficient for the Refund
scenario, where the Refund's expiration should be used instead.

Change AwaitingInvoice to store an absolute expiry instead. When
removing stale payments, pass the `SystemTime` in `std` and the highest
block time minus two hours in `no-std`.