Drop `ahash` dependency in favor of core's `SipHasher`

Drop `ahash` dependency in favor of core's `SipHasher`

https://github.com/tkaitchuck/aHash/pull/196 bumped the MSRV of
`ahash` in a patch release, which makes it rather difficult for us
to have it as a dependency.

Further, it seems that `ahash` hasn't been particularly robust in
the past, notably
https://github.com/tkaitchuck/aHash/issues/163 and
https://github.com/tkaitchuck/aHash/issues/166.

Luckily, `core` provides `SipHasher` even on no-std (sadly its
SipHash-2-4 unlike the SipHash-1-3 used by the `DefaultHasher` in
`std`). Thus, we drop the `ahash` dependency entirely here and
simply wrap `SipHasher` for our `no-std` HashMaps.