Prefer to use `MonitorUpdateRegeneratedOnStartup` where possible

Prefer to use `MonitorUpdateRegeneratedOnStartup` where possible

In the next commit we'll drop the magic `u64::MAX`
`ChannelMonitorUpdate::update_id` value used when we don't know the
`ChannelMonitor`'s `latest_update_id` (i.e. when the channel is
closed). In order to do so, we will store further information about
`ChannelMonitor`s in the per-peer structure, keyed by the
counterparty's node ID, which will be used when applying
`ChannelMonitorUpdate`s to closed channels.

By taking advantage of the change in the previous commit, that
information is now reliably available when we generate the
`ChannelMonitorUpdate` (when claiming HTLCs), but in order to
ensure it is available when applying the `ChannelMonitorUpdate` we
need to use `BackgroundEvent::MonitorUpdateRegeneratedOnStartup`
instead of
`BackgroundEvent::ClosedMonitorUpdateRegeneratedOnStartup` where
possible.

Here we do this, leaving `ClosedMonitorUpdateRegeneratedOnStartup`
only used to ensure very old channels (created in 0.0.118 or
earlier) which are not in the `ChannelManager` are force-closed on
startup.