Track actions to execute after a `ChannelMonitor` is updated

Track actions to execute after a `ChannelMonitor` is updated

When a `ChannelMonitor` update completes, we may need to take some
further action, such as exposing an `Event` to the user initiating
another `ChannelMonitor` update, etc. This commit adds the basic
structure to track such actions and serialize them as required.

Note that while this does introduce a new map which is written as
an even value which users cannot opt out of, the map is only filled
in when users use the asynchronous `ChannelMonitor` updates. As
these are still considered beta, breaking downgrades for such users
is considered acceptable here.