Blame outbound channel on UPDATE onion failure with 0-len update

Blame outbound channel on UPDATE onion failure with 0-len update

We've run into this several times in the wild, likely due to
https://github.com/ElementsProject/lightning/issues/6200 wherein a node on the
path will error with 0x1000 but not provide a channel update (a spec
violation).

Previously, we would blame the inbound edge even though the buggy peer wanted
us to blame the outbound edge. Since this issue seems to be recurring and our
blaming the inbound edge is causing us to punish innocent channels, trust the
peer that the outbound edge is the one to blame.