[bindings] Support mapping slices which contain tuples (with refs)

[bindings] Support mapping slices which contain tuples (with refs)

New work upstream puts tuples in slices, which is a very reasonable
thing to expect, however we don't know how to generate conversions
for such objects. Making it more complicated, upstream changes also
include references to things inside such slices, which requires
special handling to avoid creating dangling references.

This adds support for converting such objects, noting that slices
need to be converted first into Vecs which own their underlying
objects and then need to map any reference types into references.