Expose `onion_message` items directly rather than via re-exports

Expose `onion_message` items directly rather than via re-exports

When we originally added the `onion_message` module, there weren't
a lot of public items in it, and it didn't make a lot of sense to
export the whole sub-module structure publicly. So, instead, we
exported the public items via re-exports directly in the
`onion_message` top-level module. However, as time went on, more
and more things entered the module, which left the top-level module
rather cluttered.

Worse, in 0.0.119, we exposed
`onion_message::messenger::SendSuccess` via the return type of
`send_message`, but forgot to re-export the enum itself, making
it impossible to actually use from external code.

Here we address both issues and simply replace the re-export with
the underlying sub-module structure.