Reduce on-startup heap frag due to network graph map/vec doubling

Reduce on-startup heap frag due to network graph map/vec doubling

When we're reading a `NetworkGraph`, we know how many
nodes/channels we are reading, there's no reason not to
pre-allocate the `IndexedMap`'s inner `HashMap` and `Vec`, which we
do here.

This seems to reduce on-startup heap fragmentation with glibc by
something like 100MiB.