Enable simultaneous deserialization+decryption of a ChaChaPoly stream

Enable simultaneous deserialization+decryption of a ChaChaPoly stream

In the upcoming onion messages PR, this will allow us to avoid decrypting onion
message encrypted data in an intermediate Vec before decoding it. Instead we
decrypt and decode it at the same time using this new ChaChaPolyReadAdapter object.

In doing so, we need to adapt the decode_tlv_stream macro such that it will
decode a LengthReadableArgs, which is a new trait as well. This trait is
necessary because ChaChaPoly needs to know the total length ahead of time to
separate out the tag at the end.