Note that abandon_payment does not persist the state update in docs

Note that abandon_payment does not persist the state update in docs

If a user calls `abandon_payment`, then restarts without freshly
persisting the `ChannelManager`, the payment will still be pending
on restart. This was unclear from the docs (and the docs seemed to
imply otherwise). Because this doesn't materially impact the
usability of `abandon_payment` (users shouldn't be called
`retry_payment` on an abandoned one anyway), we simply document it.

Fixes #1804.