Only disable channels ~10 min after disconnect, rather than one

Only disable channels ~10 min after disconnect, rather than one

We correctly send out a gossip channel disable update after one
full time tick being down (1-2 minutes). This is pretty nice in
that it avoids nodes trying to route through our nodes too often
if they're down. Other nodes have a much longer time window,
causing them to have much less aggressive channel disables. Sadly,
at one minute it's not super uncommon for tor nodes to get disabled
(once a day or so on two nodes I looked at), and this causes the
lightning terminal scorer to consider the LDK node unstable (even
though it's the one doing the disabling - so is online). This
causes user frustration and makes LDK look bad (even though it's
probably failing fewer payments).

Given this, and future switches to block-based `channel_update`
timestamp fields, it makes sense to go ahead and switch to delaying
channel disable announcements for 10 minutes. This puts us more in
line with other implementations and reduces gossip spam, at the
cost of less reliable payments.

Fixes #2175, at least the currently visible parts.