Allow a `DNSResolverMessageHandler` to set `dns_resolver` feature

Allow a `DNSResolverMessageHandler` to set `dns_resolver` feature

A `DNSResolverMessageHandler` which handles resolution requests
should want the `NodeFeatures` included in the node's
`node_announcement` to include `dns_resolver` to indicate to the
world that it provides that service. Here we enable this by
requesting extra feature flags from the `DNSResolverMessageHandler`
in the features `OnionMessenger`, in turn, provides to
`PeerManager` (which builds the `node_announcement`).