Store + process pending `ChannelMonitorUpdate`s in `Channel`

Store + process pending `ChannelMonitorUpdate`s in `Channel`

The previous commits set up the ability for us to hold
`ChannelMonitorUpdate`s which are pending until we're ready to pass
them to users and have them be applied. However, if the
`ChannelManager` is persisted while we're waiting to give the user
a `ChannelMonitorUpdate` we'll be confused on restart - seeing our
latest `ChannelMonitor` state as stale compared to our
`ChannelManager` - a critical error.

Luckily the solution is trivial, we simply need to store the
pending `ChannelMonitorUpdate` state and load it with the
`ChannelManager` data, allowing stale monitors on load as long as
we have the missing pending updates between where we are and the
latest `ChannelMonitor` state.