[router] Do not fail if we are exactly (or 3x) limited by a maximum

The new MPP routing algorithm attempts to build paths with a higher
value than our payment to find paths which may allow us to pay a
fee to meet an htlc_minimum limit. This is great if we're
min-bounded, however it results in us rejecting paths where we are
bounded by a maximum near the end of the path, with fees, and then
bounded by a minimum earlier in the path. Further, it means we will
not find the cheapest path where paths have a lower relative fee
but a higher absolute fee.

Instead, we calculate routes using the actual amount we wish to
send. To maintain the previous behavior of searching for cheaper
paths where we can "pay the difference" to meet an htlc_minimum, we
detect if we were minimum-bounded during graph walking and, if we
are, we walk the graph again with a higher value.