Make event handling fallible

Make event handling fallible

Previously, we would require our users to handle all events
successfully inline or panic will trying to do so. If they would exit
the `EventHandler` any other way we'd forget about the event and
wouldn't replay them after restart.

Here, we implement fallible event handling, allowing the user to return
`Err(())` which signals to our event providers they should abort event
processing and replay any unhandled events later (i.e., in the next
invocation).