Move monitor<>outbound_payments startup htlc syncing code.

Move monitor<>outbound_payments startup htlc syncing code.

Move the code that ensures that HTLCs locked into ChannelMonitors are
synchronized with the ChannelManager's OutboundPayments store to the
outbound_payments module.

This is useful both because ChannelManager::read is very long/confusing method,
so it's nice to encapsulate some of its functionality, and because we need to
fix an existing bug in this logic where we may risk double-paying an offer due
to outbound_payments being stale on startup. See the next commit for this
bugfix.