Replace usages of `Features::is_subset` and remove it

Replace usages of `Features::is_subset` and remove it

It turns out all the places we use `Features::is_subset` we could
as well be using `Features::requires_unknown_bits_from`. Further,
in the next commit `Features` will move to a different crate so any
methods which the `lightning` crate uses will need to be public. As
the `is_subset` API is prety confusing (it doesn't consider
optional/required bits, only whether the bits themselves are
strictly a subset) it'd be nice to not have to expose it, which is
enabled here.