Add `ChannelPending` event emitted upon `funding_signed`

Add `ChannelPending` event emitted upon `funding_signed`

Currently, users don't have good way of being notified when channel open
negotiations have succeeded and new channels are pending confirmation on
chain. To this end, we add a new `ChannelPending` event that is emitted
when send or receive a `funding_signed` message, i.e., at the last
moment before waiting for the confirmation period.

We track whether the event had previously been emitted in `Channel` and
remove it from `internal_funding_created` entirely. Hence, we now
only emit the event after ChannelMonitorUpdate completion, or upon
channel reestablish. This mitigates a race condition where where we
wouldn't persist the event *and* wouldn't regenerate it on restart,
therefore potentially losing it, if async CMU wouldn't complete before
ChannelManager persistence.