Effective channel capacity for router and scoring

Effective channel capacity for router and scoring

A channel's capacity may be inferred or learned and is used to make
routing decisions, including as a parameter to channel scoring. Define
an EffectiveCapacity for this purpose. Score::channel_penalty_msat takes
the effective capacity (less in-flight HTLCs for the same payment), and
never None. Thus, for hops given in an invoice, the effective capacity
is now considered (near) infinite if over a private channel or based on
learned information if over a public channel.

If a Score implementations needs the effective capacity when updating a
channel's score, i.e. in payment_path_failed or payment_path_successful,
it can access the channel's EffectiveCapacity via the NetworkGraph by
first looking up the channel and then specifying which direction is
desired using ChannelInfo::as_directed.