Fail HTLCs which were removed from a channel but not persisted

Fail HTLCs which were removed from a channel but not persisted

When a channel is force-closed, if a `ChannelMonitor` update is
completed but a `ChannelManager` persist has not yet happened,
HTLCs which were removed in the latest (persisted) `ChannelMonitor`
update will not be failed even though they do not appear in the
commitment transaction which went on chain. This is because the
`ChannelManager` thinks the `ChannelMonitor` is responsible for
them (as it is stale), but the `ChannelMonitor` has no knowledge of
the HTLC at all (as it is not stale).

The fix for this is relatively simple - we need to check for this
specific case and fail back such HTLCs when deserializing a
`ChannelManager`