Always release `MonitorEvent`s to `ChannelManager` after 3 blocks

Always release `MonitorEvent`s to `ChannelManager` after 3 blocks

If we have a `ChannelMonitor` update from an on-chain event which
returns a `TemporaryFailure`, we block `MonitorEvent`s from that
`ChannelMonitor` until the update is persisted. This prevents
duplicate payment send events to the user after payments get
reloaded from monitors on restart.

However, if the event being avoided isn't going to generate a
PaymentSent, but instead result in us claiming an HTLC from an
upstream channel (ie the HTLC was forwarded), then the result of a
user delaying the event is that we delay getting our money, not a
duplicate event.

Because user persistence may take an arbitrary amount of time, we
need to bound the amount of time we can possibly wait to return
events, which we do here by bounding it to 3 blocks.

Thanks to Val for catching this in review.