De/serialize custom TLVs on `{Inbound,Outbound}OnionPayload`

De/serialize custom TLVs on `{Inbound,Outbound}OnionPayload`

When serialized, the TLVs in `OutboundOnionPayload`, unlike a normal
TLV stream, are prefixed with the length of the stream. To allow a user
to add arbitrary custom TLVs, we aren't able to communicate to our
serialization macros exactly which fields to expect, so this commit
adds new macro variants to allow appending an extra set of bytes (and
modifying the prefixed length accordingly).

Because the keysend preimage TLV has a type number in the custom type
range, and a user's TLVs may have type numbers above and/or below
keysend's type number, and because TLV streams must be serialized in
increasing order by type number, this commit also ensures the keysend
TLV is properly sorted/serialized amongst the custom TLVs.