Decode update_add_htlc onions before forwarding HTLCs

Decode update_add_htlc onions before forwarding HTLCs

This commit completes all of the groundwork necessary to decode incoming
`update_add_htlc` onions once they're fully committed to by both sides.
HTLCs are tracked in batches per-channel on the channel they were
received on. While this path is unreachable for now, until
`InboundHTLCResolution::Resolved` is replaced with
`InboundHTLCResolution::Pending`, it will allow us to obtain
`HTLCHandlingFailed` events for _any_ failed HTLC that comes across a
channel.