Move in-flight `ChannelMonitorUpdate`s to `ChannelManager`

Move in-flight `ChannelMonitorUpdate`s to `ChannelManager`

Because `ChannelMonitorUpdate`s can be generated for a
channel which is already closed, and must still be tracked
through their completion, storing them in a `Channel`
doesn't make sense - we'd have to have a redundant place to
put them post-closure and handle both storage locations
equivalently.

Instead, here, we move to storing in-flight
`ChannelMonitorUpdate`s to the `ChannelManager`, leaving
blocked `ChannelMonitorUpdate`s in the `Channel` as they
were.