Fix TLV serialization to work with large types.

Fix TLV serialization to work with large types.

Previous to this PR, TLV serialization involved iterating from 0 to the highest
given TLV type. This worked until we decided to implement keysend, which has a
TLV type of ~5.48 billion.

So instead, we now specify the type of whatever is being (de)serialized (which
can be an Option, a Vec type, or a non-Option (specified in the serialization macros as "required").