Fix long-standing race in net-tokio reading after a disconnect event

Fix long-standing race in net-tokio reading after a disconnect event

If rust-lightning tells us to disconnect a socket after we read
some bytes from the socket, but before we actually give those bytes
to rust-lightning, we may end up calling rust-lightning with a
Descriptor that isn't registered anymore.

Sadly, there really isn't a good way to solve this, and it should
be a pretty quick event, so we just busy-wait.