Refactor outgoing HTLC checks out from decode_update_add_htlc_onion

Refactor outgoing HTLC checks out from decode_update_add_htlc_onion

In the future, we plan to complete remove `decode_update_add_htlc_onion`
and replace it with a batched variant. This refactor, while improving
readability in its current form, does not feature any functional changes
and allows us to reuse most of the logic in the batched variant.