Handle `transaction_unconfirmed` as a full reorg to the tx height

Handle `transaction_unconfirmed` as a full reorg to the tx height

In `ChannelMonitor`, if we see a `transaction_unconfirmed` for a
transaction we last saw in a block at height X, we shouldn't
*only* remove the `onchain_events_awaiting_threshold_conf` entry
for the given tx but rather for all transactions that we last saw
at height >= X.

This avoids any potential `onchain_events_awaiting_threshold_conf`
inconsistencies due to the order in whcih users mark transactions
unconfirmed (which the `chain::Confirm` docs do not currently set
any requirements on).

This also matches the `OnchainTxHandler` behavior, which does the
same lookup.